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How to Live by Derek Sivers

by Derek Sivers

Shares rank 16 of 22 self-help books by recommenders

People recommend it as distilled wisdom in a choose-your-own-adventure format, offering guiding principles rather than rigid rules.

People recommend it as distilled wisdom in a choose-your-own-adventure format, offering guiding principles rather than rigid rules.

3 people gave an opinion

recommend it
3
criticize it
0
approval share
100%
Each figure is one person. RecommendsCriticizes

Recommended in 3 of 13 months

  1. November 2025: not recommended
  2. December 2025: not recommended
  3. January 2026: recommended
  4. February 2026: not recommended
  5. March 2026: not recommended
  6. April 2026: recommended
  7. May 2026: recommended
  8. June 2026: not recommended
  9. July 2026: not recommended
  10. August 2026: not recommended
  11. September 2026: not recommended
  12. October 2026: not recommended
  13. November 2026: not recommended (month in progress)

Why it doesn’t carry the badge

  • 3 people recommend itNeeds 10 or more, not met.
  • Nobody criticizes itNeeds 2 to 1 or better, met.
  • Recommended in 3 of 13 monthsNeeds 4 or more, not met.

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What people say about it

The reasons people give, with the number of comments that give each one. Open a reason to read what they said.

Why people recommend it

Each mark is one comment

  • Distilled wisdom in short form

    “Think of it as a distilled wisdom and a choose your own adventure book”

    Comment from 16 May 2026 in “We've made the world too complicated”

    “he's much better than almost everyone at destillation”

    Comment from 16 May 2026 in “We've made the world too complicated”
  • Guiding principles rather than rules

    “Its more of a guiding principle that drives rather than divides.”

    Comment from 17 Apr 2026 in “The Future of Everything Is Lies, I Guess: Where Do We Go from Here?”
  • Strongly recommended by readers

    “How to Live by Derek Sivers (very very good)”

    Comment from 3 Jan 2026 in “Ask HN: What did you read in 2025?”

Other self-help books people recommend

The four most recommended other self-help books, with the same counts for each, so you can compare like for like. The tick on each bar marks the 2 to 1 line the badge needs.

How to Live by Derek Sivers compared with 4 alternatives
ProductRecommendCriticizeApprovalMonthsOwnedBadge
How to Win Friends and Influence Peopleby Dale Carnegie672573%11—Approved
Atomic Habitsby James Clear20291%11—Approved
The Easy Way to Stop Smokingby Allen Carr90100%4——
Feeling Goodby David Burns80100%5——
How to Liveby Derek SiversThis page30100%3——
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What people said

All 4 comments that mention it, newest first. Each links to the original comment.

“he's much better than almost everyone at destillation”

RecommendsComment from 16 May 2026 in “We've made the world too complicated”

“Think of it as a distilled wisdom and a choose your own adventure book”

RecommendsComment from 16 May 2026 in “We've made the world too complicated”

“Its more of a guiding principle that drives rather than divides.”

RecommendsComment from 17 Apr 2026 in “The Future of Everything Is Lies, I Guess: Where Do We Go from Here?”

“How to Live by Derek Sivers (very very good)”

RecommendsComment from 3 Jan 2026 in “Ask HN: What did you read in 2025?”

Counts come from 1,795,640 Hacker News comments, November 2025 to November 2026. How we count. Report a mistake.