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Why Does He Do That?

Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft

by Lundy Bancroft

Shares rank 91 of 152 nonfiction books by recommenders

Recommended as a book on male domestic violence perpetrators that goes into more detail than the parable it accompanies; one reader found the story a bit strange.

Recommended as a book on male domestic violence perpetrators that goes into more detail than the parable it accompanies; one reader found the story a bit strange.

3 people gave an opinion

recommend it
3
criticize it
0
approval share
100%
Each figure is one person. RecommendsCriticizes

Recommended in 1 of 13 months

  1. November 2025: not recommended
  2. December 2025: not recommended
  3. January 2026: not recommended
  4. February 2026: recommended
  5. March 2026: not recommended
  6. April 2026: not recommended
  7. May 2026: not recommended
  8. June 2026: not recommended
  9. July 2026: not recommended
  10. August 2026: not recommended
  11. September 2026: not recommended
  12. October 2026: not recommended
  13. November 2026: not recommended (month in progress)

Why it doesn’t carry the badge

  • 3 people recommend itNeeds 10 or more, not met.
  • Nobody criticizes itNeeds 2 to 1 or better, met.
  • Recommended in 1 of 13 monthsNeeds 4 or more, not met.

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What people say about it

The reasons people give, with the number of comments that give each one. Open a reason to read what they said.

Why people recommend it

Each mark is one comment

  • Covers male domestic violence perpetrators

    “There's a book about male domestic violence perpetrators which you really ought to read.”

    Comment from 11 Feb 2026 in “The US is flirting with its first-ever population decline”
  • Goes deeper than the parable

    “There are aspects of the parable here that the book goes into a lot more detail on”

    Comment from 11 Feb 2026 in “The US is flirting with its first-ever population decline”
  • Parable rings true to readers

    “This parable does sadly ring true.”

    Comment from 11 Feb 2026 in “The US is flirting with its first-ever population decline”

Other nonfiction books people recommend

The four most recommended other nonfiction books, with the same counts for each, so you can compare like for like. The tick on each bar marks the 2 to 1 line the badge needs.

Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft compared with 4 alternatives
ProductRecommendCriticizeApprovalMonthsOwnedBadge
The Cuckoo's Eggby Cliff Stoll400100%8—Approved
Amusing Ourselves to Deathby Neil Postman360100%91 yr3 ownersApproved
The Anxious Generationby Jonathan Haidt241267%10—Approved
Bullshit Jobsby David Graeber201263%8——
Why Does He Do That?by Lundy BancroftThis page30100%1——
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What people said

All 4 comments that mention it, newest first. Each links to the original comment.

“There are aspects of the parable here that the book goes into a lot more detail on”

RecommendsComment from 11 Feb 2026 in “The US is flirting with its first-ever population decline”

“I find the story a bit strange though.”

MixedComment from 11 Feb 2026 in “The US is flirting with its first-ever population decline”

“This parable does sadly ring true.”

RecommendsComment from 11 Feb 2026 in “The US is flirting with its first-ever population decline”

“There's a book about male domestic violence perpetrators which you really ought to read.”

RecommendsComment from 11 Feb 2026 in “The US is flirting with its first-ever population decline”

Counts come from 1,795,640 Hacker News comments, November 2025 to November 2026. How we count. Report a mistake.