Surely You're Joking, Mr. Feynman!
Surely You're Joking, Mr. Feynman! by Richard Feynmanby Richard Phillips Feynman and Ralph Leighton
Ranked 3 of 25 memoirs by recommenders
Entertaining, playful memoir of Feynman's adventures that people recommend for its stories and curiosity. Critics say the stories portray sexist, mean-spirited behavior and may be edited or made up.
Entertaining, playful memoir of Feynman's adventures that people recommend for its stories and curiosity. Critics say the stories portray sexist, mean-spirited behavior and may be edited or made up.
18 people gave an opinion
- recommend it
- 11
- criticize it
- 7
- approval share
- 61%
Recommended in 6 of 13 months
- November 2025: not recommended
- December 2025: recommended
- January 2026: recommended
- February 2026: recommended
- March 2026: recommended
- April 2026: not recommended
- May 2026: recommended
- June 2026: recommended
- July 2026: not recommended
- August 2026: not recommended
- September 2026: not recommended
- October 2026: not recommended
- November 2026: not recommended (month in progress)
Why it doesn’t carry the badge
- 11 people recommend itNeeds 10 or more, met.
- 1.5 recommenders for every criticNeeds 2 to 1 or better, not met.
- Recommended in 6 of 13 monthsNeeds 4 or more, met.
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What people say about it
The reasons people give, with the number of comments that give each one. Open a reason to read what they said.
Why people recommend it
Each mark is one comment
Wild adventures and encounters
“really absorb the part where he explains how he had so many crazy adventures and encounters”
Comment from 16 Jan 2026 in “Ask HN: How can we solve the loneliness epidemic?” “the stories in Feynman's autobiographical books”
Comment from 11 Feb 2026 in “The Feynman Lectures on Physics (online edition)” Fun that encourages curiosity
“Completely unrelated books about curiosity not people skills, but still lots of fun.”
Comment from 5 May 2026 in “Talking to 35 Strangers at the Gym” “If not, I suggest to read just for fun of it”
Comment from 17 May 2026 in “Ask HN: When did computers stop being fun?” Practical social advice on nightlife
“explained perfectly (to me) how to treat women at clubs in order to be respected and have attention from the gals. WORKS LIKE A CHARM”
Comment from 11 Feb 2026 in “The Feynman Lectures on Physics (online edition)” “He addressed the problem of females who simply eat and drink for free EXPLOITING stupid dudes”
Comment from 11 Feb 2026 in “The Feynman Lectures on Physics (online edition)”
What people warn about
Each mark is one comment
Sexist and misogynistic content
“It seems a legitimate criticism that this book held up as an example of a good role model in physics doesn't try to avoid perpetuating bad stereotypes.”
Comment from 11 Feb 2026 in “The Feynman Lectures on Physics (online edition)” “criticizing misogynistic behaviors celebrated in those books that has left a negative impact on the culture of physics”
Comment from 11 Feb 2026 in “The Feynman Lectures on Physics (online edition)” “The stories in "Surely you are joking Mr. Feynman" portray Feynman in a mean-spirited, sometimes sexist light.”
Comment from 11 Feb 2026 in “The Feynman Lectures on Physics (online edition)” - Comment from 11 Feb 2026 in “The Feynman Lectures on Physics (online edition)”
- Comment from 11 Feb 2026 in “The Feynman Lectures on Physics (online edition)”
Stories refined, selected or made up
“That chapter wasn't the only thing I ended up skipping or heavily editing.”
Comment from 11 Feb 2026 in “The Feynman Lectures on Physics (online edition)” “it does seem clear that these stories were refined and selected for inclusion”
Comment from 12 Feb 2026 in “The Feynman Lectures on Physics (online edition)” “I remember when I read that 20 years ago, it felt a bit made up.”
Comment from 11 Feb 2026 in “The Feynman Lectures on Physics (online edition)” Mean-spirited tone toward groups
“The stories in "Surely you are joking Mr. Feynman" portray Feynman in a mean-spirited, sometimes sexist light.”
Comment from 11 Feb 2026 in “The Feynman Lectures on Physics (online edition)” “it is generalizing an entire group and justifying contempt toward them”
Comment from 11 Feb 2026 in “The Feynman Lectures on Physics (online edition)”
Other memoirs people recommend
The four most recommended other memoirs, with the same counts for each, so you can compare like for like. The tick on each bar marks the 2 to 1 line the badge needs.
| Product | Recommend | Criticize | Approval | Months | Owned | Badge |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Careless Peopleby Sarah Wynn-Williams | 106 | 24 | 82% | 12 | — | Approved |
| Man's Search for Meaningby Viktor Emil Frankl | 13 | 2 | 87% | 9 | — | Approved |
| Surely You're Joking, Mr. Feynman!by Richard Phillips Feynman and Ralph LeightonThis page | 11 | 7 | 61% | 6 | — | — |
| Down and Out in Paris and Londonby George Orwell | 9 | 1 | 90% | 8 | — | — |
| Kitchen Confidentialby Anthony Bourdain | 9 | 0 | 100% | 4 | — | — |
What people said
20 of the 22 comments that mention it, newest first. Each links to the original comment.
“Go read the story that Richard Feynman tells of betting an abacus user.”
“If not, I suggest to read just for fun of it”
“Completely unrelated books about curiosity not people skills, but still lots of fun.”
“it does seem clear that these stories were refined and selected for inclusion”
“That chapter wasn't the only thing I ended up skipping or heavily editing.”
“the stories in Feynman's autobiographical books”
“his books strongly indicate this”
“it is generalizing an entire group and justifying contempt toward them”
“He addressed the problem of females who simply eat and drink for free EXPLOITING stupid dudes”
“Great advice! Not misogynistic at all!”
“explained perfectly (to me) how to treat women at clubs in order to be respected and have attention from the gals. WORKS LIKE A CHARM”
“I remember when I read that 20 years ago, it felt a bit made up.”
“The stories in "Surely you are joking Mr. Feynman" portray Feynman in a mean-spirited, sometimes sexist light.”
“recommending the book is a valorization of his wacky hijinks”
“It seems a legitimate criticism that this book held up as an example of a good role model in physics doesn't try to avoid perpetuating bad stereotypes.”
“the degree of sexism effectively celebrated by inclusion”
“criticizing misogynistic behaviors celebrated in those books that has left a negative impact on the culture of physics”
“really absorb the part where he explains how he had so many crazy adventures and encounters”
“But he is against hazing, explaining how traumatized European Jews were hazed and reliving their fears in Europe.”
“especially reading Surely You're Joking, Mr. Feynman! leaves a bad taste in my mouth after all these years”
Counts come from 1,795,640 Hacker News comments, November 2025 to November 2026. How we count. Report a mistake.