# Gender Queer by Maia Kobabe

4 Hacker News commenters recommended Gender Queer by Maia Kobabe and 3 criticized it, November 2025 to November 2026. It was recommended in 2 of 13 months.

**Verdict:** Recommended as an honest memoir of sexuality and identity that gives readers accurate information and portrays a lived experience. Critics most often say it is sexually explicit and unsuitable for young children.

## Why people recommend it

- Helpful for kids exploring sexuality (2 comments): "Sexuality is not pornography. It's certainly more extreme than anything I was ever exposed to in my youth, but i'm sure this could have been massively helpful to a few kids in my high school" ([source](https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=47176794)) "Kids were searching it out because they were curious about sexuality and trying to understand their feelings" ([source](https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=47177049))
- Accurate information rather than misinformation (1 comments): "Id rather them get the correct knowledge, rather than slop, misinformation, or worse." ([source](https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=48557747))
- Portrays a lived experience (1 comments): "it's meant to portray a lived experience" ([source](https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=47176900))

## What people warn about

- Too explicit for young children (2 comments): "It's solely focused on sexuality, is quite crude, illustrated, targeted towards young children" ([source](https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=46322503)) "sexually explicit and graphically depicted books such as Gender Queer is not appropriate" ([source](https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=46317463))
- Sexually explicit, graphic content (3 comments): "sexually explicit and graphically depicted books such as Gender Queer is not appropriate" ([source](https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=46317463)) "it would, at the absolute bare minimum, be R rated" ([source](https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=46327945)) "And it is pornographic, check page 168." ([source](https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=47176644))
- Called pornographic by critics (1 comments): "And it is pornographic, check page 168." ([source](https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=47176644))

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- [Persepolis by Marjane Satrapi](https://hackerapproved.com/p/persepolis.md): 16 recommend
- [Transmetropolitan by Warren Ellis and Darick Robertson](https://hackerapproved.com/p/transmetropolitan.md): 5 recommend
- [Logicomix by Apostolos Doxiadis and Christos Papadimitriou](https://hackerapproved.com/p/logicomix.md): 5 recommend
- [Frontier by Guillaume Singelin](https://hackerapproved.com/p/frontier.md): 4 recommend
- [The One by Rick Veitch](https://hackerapproved.com/p/one.md): 3 recommend

## Where to get it

- [See price on Amazon](https://www.amazon.com/dp/1549304003?tag=hackerapprove-20) (affiliate link)
- [Bookshop.org](https://bookshop.org/a/130825/9781549304002) (affiliate link)

## Cite as

Hacker Approved, "Gender Queer by Maia Kobabe", https://hackerapproved.com/p/gender-queer/ (counts from 1,795,640 Hacker News comments, November 2025 to November 2026).