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Crucial Conversations

Crucial Conversations by Patterson, Grenny, McMillan and Switzler

by Patterson, Grenny, McMillan and Switzler

Shares rank 129 of 152 nonfiction books by recommenders

Recommended as a good place to start on handling difficult conversations, with attention to the role emotions play in dialogue.

Recommended as a good place to start on handling difficult conversations, with attention to the role emotions play in dialogue.

2 people gave an opinion

recommend it
2
criticize it
0
approval share
100%
Each figure is one person. RecommendsCriticizes

Recommended in 2 of 13 months

  1. November 2025: not recommended
  2. December 2025: recommended
  3. January 2026: not recommended
  4. February 2026: not recommended
  5. March 2026: not recommended
  6. April 2026: not recommended
  7. May 2026: not recommended
  8. June 2026: not recommended
  9. July 2026: not recommended
  10. August 2026: recommended
  11. September 2026: not recommended
  12. October 2026: not recommended
  13. November 2026: not recommended (month in progress)

Why it doesn’t carry the badge

  • 2 people recommend itNeeds 10 or more, not met.
  • Nobody criticizes itNeeds 2 to 1 or better, met.
  • Recommended in 2 of 13 monthsNeeds 4 or more, not met.

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What people say about it

The reasons people give, with the number of comments that give each one. Open a reason to read what they said.

Why people recommend it

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  • Good place to start

    “"Crucial Conversations" is a good place to start.”

    Comment from 18 Aug 2026 in “AI;DR (AI; Didn't Read)”
  • Emphasizes emotions in dialogue

    “All of these will emphasize the role emotions play in dialogue”

    Comment from 15 Dec 2025 in “Hashcards: A plain-text spaced repetition system”

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The four most recommended other nonfiction books, with the same counts for each, so you can compare like for like. The tick on each bar marks the 2 to 1 line the badge needs.

Crucial Conversations by Patterson, Grenny, McMillan and Switzler compared with 4 alternatives
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The Cuckoo's Eggby Cliff Stoll400100%8—Approved
Amusing Ourselves to Deathby Neil Postman360100%91 yr3 ownersApproved
The Anxious Generationby Jonathan Haidt241267%10—Approved
Bullshit Jobsby David Graeber201263%8——
Crucial Conversationsby Patterson, Grenny, McMillan and SwitzlerThis page20100%2——
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What people said

All 2 comments that mention it, newest first. Each links to the original comment.

“"Crucial Conversations" is a good place to start.”

RecommendsComment from 18 Aug 2026 in “AI;DR (AI; Didn't Read)”

“All of these will emphasize the role emotions play in dialogue”

RecommendsComment from 15 Dec 2025 in “Hashcards: A plain-text spaced repetition system”

Counts come from 1,795,640 Hacker News comments, November 2025 to November 2026. How we count. Report a mistake.